Cheating Couple’s Shocking Confessions: “My Husband Compared Me to Other Women During the Affair”
On the 16th episode of JTBC’s “Divorce Camp,” the final day of adjustment for the couples arrived.
First up were the cheating couple, Kim Chan-ho and Yoon Hee-a. When asked by their lawyer, “What do you think of your wife?” the husband replied, “I’ve caused her a lot of pain, so she probably doesn’t want to stay married.”
That day, the lawyers examined whether the husband’s infidelity legally constituted cheating.
One of the incidents was when the husband went to a motel with a woman but claimed they didn’t have sexual relations. The wife argued, “That’s still cheating. He even admitted there was physical contact and that he wanted more.” The husband insisted, “We didn’t have an affair. I left because of the guilt,” and denied it was infidelity.
However, the court clarified that infidelity is not limited to physical contact, and a simple exchange of texts like “I miss you” can be considered cheating.
The wife also mentioned an incident where her husband called the name of a female coworker while sleep-talking. In response, the husband confessed, “A new female employee joined, and she was younger. My wife just stays home, so I started to like her. I said things like, ‘Why did I marry you?’ to provoke my wife.”
When asked about their actual relationship, the husband explained, “We only talked. The woman said she had a boyfriend, so it wasn’t anything. I was the one who made a big deal out of it,” and he confirmed that the woman ended the relationship.
The wife’s lawyer then asked her, “If there wasn’t mutual affection, could this still be considered infidelity?” The wife replied, “It’s okay if you like someone a little, but my husband only talked about her for three months and bought her lots of gifts. Then, he told me, ‘It would have been better if I had a child with her.’ I was pregnant at the time,” making a shocking revelation.
The lawyer stated, “Even if there’s no direct affair, if one partner expresses affection and takes action, it can be grounds for divorce, and you can even claim 30 million won in alimony.” However, the wife remarked, “It’s not about money. Time can’t be returned,” revealing her inner feelings.
Regarding her husband’s phone calls with the woman he had feelings for, the wife explained, “She called him first, and he answered,” but the husband admitted he had initiated contact via KakaoTalk. The husband claimed he only had long phone calls with the woman twice a month. He also blamed his wife for his affair, saying he wanted to anger her.
The husband mentioned that his wife had changed after the affair, but when he expressed dissatisfaction with the changes, the lawyer responded, “I can’t comment on that. It’s your fault.”
The wife also revealed that her husband’s frequent watching of adult videos had affected their relationship. She confessed that she didn’t want to have intimacy with him because of his obsession with these videos. She also exposed that her husband often compared her to the women in the videos, saying, “When we were intimate, he said he only wanted to see the women in the videos and not me.”
The lawyer was shocked, stating, “Did he really say that? Watching adult videos and acting like that is definitely grounds for divorce.”