“It Was Just a Bachelor Party” Wife Discovers Husband Slept with Ex During Wedding Preparations
On April 22, a post titled “Husband’s Affair Before Our Marriage” appeared on the Korean online community Nate Pann. In it, the poster identified as A shared her shocking experience.
“I found out on our 500th day of marriage that my husband had an affair before our wedding. We don’t have children,” A began.
According to her account, she stumbled upon evidence stored on Naver Box, a cloud storage service. There, she discovered that while they were deep in planning their wedding, her husband had met up with his ex-girlfriend, drinking and eventually sleeping together.
When confronted, the husband reportedly brushed it off as a moment of weakness, calling it an “indiscretion” and trying to downplay it by describing it as a kind of bachelor party.
“He told me he truly loves and cherishes me. He said it was just a one-time mistake, a bachelor party if you will,” A explained. A then asked netizens for advice, adding that he hasn’t cheated again since their marriage.
The story quickly ignited debate online. Comments from Korean netizens ranged from deeply skeptical to outright furious:
- How can you be sure he hasn’t cheated after marriage?
- Do you know why it’s called an affair? Because once it starts, it keeps blowing.
- If you can live with it, that’s your choice.
- A dog doesn’t just stop pooping.
- Even the thought of messing around with a total stranger would feel disgusting so having a bachelor party with your ex? You piece of trash.
- It’s disgusting even for a man to see.
- Seriously, people with no sense of chastity are repulsive.
The post has gone viral, tapping into ongoing conversations in Korea about trust, forgiveness, and the blurred lines of betrayal in relationships.
As for A, it seems she now faces a painful decision: Can she rebuild her marriage on a foundation that was already cracked before it began?
