KATSEYE’s Lara Shuts Down Dating Rumors With Members – Sparks Online Debate
On April 15, KATSEYE member Lara addressed growing dating rumors involving fellow members Daniela and Manon through a message on the Weverse DM platform. Lara clarified directly to fans that she is not in a relationship with either of them, emphasizing that they are close friends and likening the idea of dating them to “incest.”
While her calm and candid response was praised by many, it has ignited broader conversations online surrounding fan culture, boundaries, and LGBTQ+ representation in K-pop.
Lara, who recently came out as queer, previously expressed concerns that her identity might impact her debut. Her openness has been celebrated by fans, but the recent incident highlights the challenges that can arise when parasocial relationships and real-life friendships are misinterpreted.
Some netizens criticized those who assumed that Lara’s closeness with other female members must be romantic, calling it a reflection of harmful stereotypes that erase the validity of platonic relationships. Others condemned the act of “shipping” real-life idols a practice where fans pair individuals into romantic relationships especially when those assumptions are brought directly to the idols themselves.
“Shipping” has long been a controversial topic within fandoms. While it can be a form of creative expression for some fans, involving real people without their consent is increasingly viewed as invasive or objectifying.
Although views differ on the ethics of fan-shipping, there was widespread agreement that such topics should not be presented to idols in ways that cross personal boundaries.
Ultimately, many fans expressed support for Lara and called for greater respect toward idols’ privacy, especially when it comes to sensitive matters such as sexuality and personal relationships.
